I never cursed and it's a good thing I know. But my friends always say bad words and I feel so behind. Should I learn how to curse like they do?

It is important to consider several aspects before deciding whether to start using profanity, even if your friends do.

Setting a Good Example

Your decision to avoid cursing sets a positive example, and this can be influential. As noted in several sources, your example matters, and others may respect and appreciate your choice to use clean language25.

Reasons Not to Swear

There are several compelling reasons to avoid swearing:

• Profanity can be insulting and dehumanizing, which is contrary to treating others with respect and kindness4.
• It often carries a negative worldview and can make others feel disrespected4.
• There are usually better, more descriptive words that can be used to express emotions without resorting to profanity4.

Personal Values and Comfort

Consider your own values and comfort level with language. If you have chosen not to swear because it aligns with your personal beliefs or values, there is no need to change this simply to fit in with your friends. It is important to be true to yourself and maintain your integrity.

Social Dynamics

While your friends may use profanity, it does not mean you need to follow suit to be accepted or included. Good friends will respect your choices and values, even if they differ from their own2.

In summary, there is no compelling reason to learn how to curse just because your friends do. Instead, you can continue to set a positive example and maintain your personal values regarding language.